Calm isn't a gift - it's a skill. And this book will teach you how to build it.
If anxiety doesn't show up as "worry" for you, you're not alone. For many men, anxiety looks like:
pressure and overworkirritability or anger spikessleep problems and 3 a.m. spiralsavoidance, shutdown, or "I'll handle it alone" thinkingcontrol habits, perfectionism, and constant scanningalcohol/nicotine cues used as an "off switch"panic in public and fear of losing faceSteady Mind is a practical, respectful, no-shame guide to getting your nervous system back on your side - with tools that fit real life: work pressure, relationships, fatherhood, money uncertainty, and hard conversations.
Inside you'll learn:
fast body-first calming you can use anywhere (without making it weird)how to stop the sleep loop (and the stimulant rebound that keeps it going)conflict tools that reduce fights and increase repairhow anger can be anxiety in disguise - and what to do in the momenthow to handle panic in public with a clear "stay" protocolfitness without obsession: training your body AND your nervous systemhow to manage alcohol/nicotine cues without moralizing or all-or-nothing ruleshow to ask for help in a direct, identity-safe way"hard talk" exposure reps that build real confidencea 21-day Tools Sprint to turn skills into automatic habitsexact scripts: boundaries, repair lines, and support asksThis is not about becoming a different man. It's about becoming a steadier version of yourself - with small reps, practiced often.
Note: This book provides education and skills training and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. If symptoms are new or severe, or if you're dealing with depression, suicidal thoughts, substance dependence, or risk of harm, please seek urgent professional support.