Life is speckled, every part a different me, every phase a new me, every challenge a better me. To be able to see from various planes and the influence of our relations at social, personal and family level. Understanding changing human nature, complexities and changing equations . Keeping learning the only focus at every point and phase, rather than wanting to get even, being yourself and not join the race, not giving up nor carrying it all along .This book shares those learning's, experiences and observations along the journey of self to help reflect, reconnect, reassure and rebuild .