For the most part, you can't choose who you will date. You can choose what you want to do with those feelings, but you can't force yourself to have feelings for someone else and you can't force yourself to stop. Because of this, it is very easy to fall into the trap of flirting with the wrong person.Just think of it. If we were all in love with the right person from the start, none of us would have to deal with the pain of separation. You don't have to worry about whether you will fall in love with your partner or not. You certainly wouldn't want a variety of "Yes," signals because you'll just know it.One of our most important needs as human beings is to love and be loved. Since we have a relationship since we came into the world, one would think it would be easy to choose the right partners for us. But the fact is, many people choose the wrong partner and end up feeling unhappy (and perhaps hurt) in their relationship. For some, it is easier to get out of a relationship if it is not the right thing to do, but for others, it is not. Most people stay in a relationship and are aware of their unhappiness as they know deep down that their partner is not right.There are many compelling reasons why we choose our partners and why we live in a last-ditch relationship - some of these reasons are known while others are unheard of. To understand what motivates our choices we must be willing to work on our own and build awareness of our patterns.
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