Resolving family disputes in caregiving: Distributing responsibility fairly

By Dominik Mikulaschek

Book Overview

In **"Resolving Family Disputes in Caregiving: Distributing Responsibility Fairly,"** the book is about one of the most difficult and emotionally charged situations a family can face: a loved one suddenly becomes dependent on care, and the entire family system begins to shift under pressure. What may first seem like a practical challenge-organizing doctor's appointments, medication, meals, transportation, or daily support-often turns into a painful conflict about responsibility, fairness, guilt, exhaustion, and old family wounds. This book explains why that happens and how families can deal with it in a calmer, clearer, and more structured way. At its core, this book explores **family conflict in caregiving**, **caregiver burnout**, **unequal responsibility in elder care**, and the emotional burden placed on adult children, spouses, and relatives when one person ends up doing almost everything. It shows why caregiving so often follows an unfair pattern: one family member becomes the main caregiver, while others withdraw, avoid difficult conversations, criticize from a distance, or convince themselves that the person carrying the load is "simply better at it." Over time, this imbalance creates resentment, emotional isolation, and deep family tension. The book also explains how **old childhood roles** can suddenly reappear when a parent becomes frail, ill, or dependent. The responsible oldest child may again feel forced to take control. Another sibling may become avoidant, defensive, or passive. A formerly rebellious family member may resist every structure or decision. These reactions are not random. They are often rooted in long-established family dynamics that come back under stress. By understanding these patterns, readers can stop seeing every conflict as a personal attack and begin recognizing the deeper emotional system behind it. A major focus of the book is moving from chaos to clarity. Instead of endless arguments, vague expectations, silent disappointmen

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: 3384885325
• ISBN13: 9783384885326
• Release Date: April 2026
• Publisher: Tredition Gmbh
• Length: 108 Pages
• Weight: 0.46 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.2" x 7.4" x 9.7"