Relationships Surviving on Borrowed Times

By Mfundisi Mthimunye

RELATIONSHIPS SURVIVING ON BORROWED TIMES

When the love relationship has come to a point where it survives on borrowed times, understand that such a relationship has strived and strived to survive until it came to a point where both members of a couple have accepted their faith of losing each other and have actually left the whole scenario to address itself or rather living it to chance. The surviving on borrowed times in this context would mean that whatever happens to the relationship is left to chance. Such a relationship is on the brink of destruction and the couple needs to face the reality that they are about to separate or divorce if they are a married couple. This further means that the relationship might survive or fail depending on how the couple would relate to each other under these circumstances. Miracles happen and unfortunately under these circumstances the scale might lead either way, i.e. there's no certainty whether the relationship would be normalized again or not.

The events that precipitated the aforementioned degradation of the love relationship will be meticulously scrutinized and these events will illuminate the nitty-gritties pertaining to every particular event that took place. Couples need to be aware that whatever they do in a love relationship has direct implications and results of the outcome of how the relationship itself was handled. Sometimes it will be right to indicate that the couple had laid their bed and they therefore should sleep in it. Resuscitating a love relationship that is surviving on borrowed times is not a child play because all the nitty-gritties pertaining to the downfall of the relationship should be revisited and every angle thereof should be meticulously scrutinized.

Living on borrowed times whilst the couple is still living in the same house together has a disadvantage and can exacerbate the situation. It is actually better for the couple to see each other when the dilemma between them is actually being addressed. This actually gives them the opportunity to reflect on what really happened between them and assist them in resolving their dilemma. Love relationships are very complex and sometimes they need a complex approach to resuscitate them when they are facing a situation where they are surviving on borrowed times. These kinds of relationships have actually been through the resuscitation process which has yielded dubious results. Actually nothing is left to resuscitate them because every endeavour has failed.

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: 106726843X
• ISBN13: 9781067268435
• Release Date: March 2026
• Publisher: Mfundisi Mthimunye
• Length: 94 Pages
• Weight: 0.53 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.2" x 8.5" x 11.0"