Three million air miles. Four decades of teaching. One question: How do we treat each other? Somewhere between mind your manners and read the room, an entire generation stopped learning how to treat people. Not because they do not care. Because nobody showed them how. In fifteen warm, honest chapters, Phyllis E. Davis answers the questions people are too embarrassed to ask about integrity, kindness, courage, and the small daily choices that reveal who we really are. This is a field guide to being the person other people are relieved to see walk into the room.