Now I Know (the Hidden Victim): If You Can't Protect Yourself You Can't Your Children

by La Toyia Conway Hampton

Book Overview

"NOW I KNOW" If I can't protect myself I can't protect my children Did you know...your children are affected by the trauma you experience in your life. Even if they have not witnessed a single incident. Children are connected to their mother through their very being. At one-point each child was connected by every breath, every emotion and every heartbeat to the only life source they know... MOTHER. When mothers are experiencing pain of any sort their children are hurting as well. Children spend time hurting, not understanding why. Seeking ease and comfort from mom but she blinded, by her own pain. Seeking verbal confirmation and validation from guest who..."Mommy look what I can do." Her blinders are blocked with her own trauma of racing thoughts. Forgetting to meet their emotional needs, she is momma, help them please. "Mommy they are not safe there, they need you now. Author: La Toyia Conway Hampton shares a story of a HIDDEN VICTIM (Innocent Child) of domestic violence, drug addiction and sexual assault. A blue print to become a victim herself. This is a must-read compelling narrative of a Survivor that skillfully weaves three points of trauma into one compelling life's journey. CAN YOU IMAGINE... Being molested in the bed with your intoxicated sleeping motherBeing gang raped animal style by 6 teen boys that caused you to create a non-exiting twin. Living a life of violence & drive-byes. Becoming the victim, I said I would never beUsing drugs and alcohol to cope with the inner me As an adult, looking back and reflecting on trauma that shaped the way you process lifeLa Toyia realizes she's been given an assignment by GOD to help unlock the mystery of Domestic Violence, Drugs & Alcohol and Sexual Assault with women & girls that she came across the over last 20 years. It is not often that you get a chance to live a second lifestyle after so many traumatizing experiences. Using experience as vessels to help others reach for authentic healing. When you share from a place of past it is much different from sharing from paper. As the first Survivor Led Domestic Violence Program in the Antelope Valley. She's MaryKay's National Inspiring Story, Author of the NOW I KNOW Series, Antelope Valley's Phenomenal Woman, Transformational Coach, CEO and Founder of Two-Lifestyles, Inc. Women Empowerment Program. www.twolifestyles.com

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: 1082386030
• ISBN13: 9781082386039
• Release Date: July 2019
• Publisher: Independently Published
• Length: 92 Pages
• Weight: 0.30 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.2" x 6.0" x 9.0"