Life is an Art of Balance/生活需要分寸感 [Chinese]

By 章岩

For Sages and Commoners Alike: Encompassing a Millennium of Chinese Wisdom on Life and Conduct. 从古圣先贤到升斗小民都要读，囊括中华千年处世智慧！ To live well between heaven and earth-whether in interactions with others, relationships with parents, relatives, and friends, dynamics between managers and employees, or humanity's transformation of nature-everything must be guided by a sense of分寸. Between people, excessive closeness can breed dislike due to differing values and personalities, leading to conflict; excessive distance, however, results in neglect and resentment. Those regarded as emotionally intelligent are masters of navigating this subtle balance. By maintaining this分寸, we keep others neither distant nor weary of us in daily interactions. Confucianism calls this principle of conduct the "Doctrine of the Mean" - the path of impartiality and perfect appropriateness. This book draws its philosophy from this traditional Chinese wisdom. Rooted in an interpretation of the classic Zhongyong, it integrates practical content tailored to our modern context, guiding today's readers in communication, daily life, management, and harmonious coexistence with society. Its aim is to help you become someone whom others never tire of, a person with excellent relationships, successful in career and happy in life-a wise individual who can engage freely with the spirit of heaven and earth. 一个人在天地之间生活，无论是人与人之间的交往，还是与父母、亲戚、朋友之间的相处，还是管理者和员工之间的关系，以及人类对天地自然的改造，这一切要想顺风顺水，关键在于掌控分寸感。人与人之间，如果过于亲近，有时候反而因三观个性不同而互相生厌，以至于导致各种矛盾发生；过于疏远，又会导致冷落和怨恨。所谓高情商的人，就是把握微妙分寸感的高手。只要我们能够把握分寸感，就能在日常交往中让人既不疏远，又不生厌。儒家将这种做人的规范称之为"中庸之道"，即不偏不倚、恰到好处。本书理念源自中华传统中庸之道，基于《中庸》原文解读，并在当下时代背景下融合更多实用内容，指导我们现代人更好地交际、生活、管理及与社会和谐共处，从而让自己做一个久处不厌、人缘爆棚的人，一个事业成功、生活幸福的人，一个能与天地精神相往来的智者。

• Format: Paperback
• Language: Chinese
• ISBN: 7511378153
• ISBN13: 9787511378156
• Release Date: June 2019
• Publisher: China National Publications Import & Export C
• Length: 272 Pages
• Weight: 1.29 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.7" x 6.7" x 9.6"