Living When a Young Friend Commits Suicide: Or Even Starts Talking about It

by Earl A. Grollman and Max Malikow

Book Overview

In the last thirty years, the suicide rate among young people has tripled. In this book addressed to the young survivors of this epidemic, Earl A. Grollman, the internationally known lecturer, writer, and grief counselor, and Max Malikow, a psychotherapist and pastoral counselor, offer solace and guidance to adolescents who are confronted with someone of their own age who is contemplating or has committed suicide.

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: 0807025038
• ISBN13: 9780807025031
• Release Date: September 1999
• Publisher: Beacon Press
• Length: 122 Pages
• Weight: 1.45 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.3" x 5.5" x 8.5"

Customer Reviews

Recommended reading

After one of my daughters closest friends committed suicide, a therapist recommended this book. I found it very helpful and informative. I could read it a little at a time and it helped me gain some insight into the tragedy that had happened, how to deal with it, and how to help my daughter deal with her loss. I highly recommend it for anyone else who might be going through a loss or know of a young teen or adult who is experiencing the loss of a young person.

Helping my son & his friends cope with the suicide of a good friend

On April 30 my son lost one of his best friends. I have been searching for a way to help him cope with losing his friend to suicide. This book is helping him a lot. So much, that he asked me to order it for another friend, which I did.

An excellent resource for young people facing peer suicide

October 4, 1999Book Review - Colleen SullivanLiving When a Young Friend Commits Suicide: Or Even Starts Talking About It Earl A. Grollman and Max Malikow ISBN: 0-8070-2503-8 Beacon PressSuicide, especially in children and teens is a subject rarely discussed. Yet since 1980 the suicide rate among children 10 to 14 has nearly doubled, and in older teens is disproportionately high. For every young person who commits suicide, the lives of friends and companions are touched in a way different from that of surviving a natural death.Living When A Young Friend Commits Suicide addresses the concerns and questions of the young people left behind, sensitively guiding them to understanding and acceptance. From the initial feelings and emotions to the difficult and hard- hitting questions of youth the authors offer sound advice and empathy.When a friend has committed suicide your feelings are myriad. Shock, grief, sadness, guilt and anger are some of the emotions discussed in this book. Your questions are multiple, most importantly "Why?" and "Was it Really a Suicide?" Did your friend tell you of his suicide plans and swear you to secrecy? Are you carrying a burden of guilt because of it? You need help, understanding and support to face the immediate future and to learn how to cope. You may have heard misconceptions about suicide that you need straight answers for, or you may have religious questions. All of these are addressed in a forthright, easily read and understood manner in this book.I highly recommend this book for any young person faced with learning to live again after the suicide of a friend. I also recommend it for the parents, counselors and teachers of youth who may be the bereaved young person's first line of defense in recovery.Addendum: As an adult with Bipolar Affective Disorder suicide has touched my life several times, both in close friends and in my own effort to end my life. It is my observation that loss due to suicide must be dealt with at the time or it may affect a person's life months or even years later. I applaud the authors of this book for removing the secrecy and stigma of suicide and giving it the forthright attention it deserves. Congratulations! An excellent book.