Last Rights: Taking Care of Your Final Journey (Capital Cares)

By Pat Cochrane and Pat Cochran

Death is a reality we all fear, embrace and grieve. Last Rights invites readers in a gentle, non-threatening way, to plan for the inevitable, for yourself and your loved ones. It provides practical... This description may be from another edition of this product.

• Format: Hardcover
• Language: English
• ISBN: 1892123398
• ISBN13: 9781892123398
• Release Date: November 2000
• Publisher: Capital Books
• Length: 320 Pages
• Weight: 1.00 lbs.
• Dimensions: 9.0" x 0.8" x 6.0"

Customer Reviews

One of the best books I've read on the subject.

Sometimes it takes a life-altering event to make you question your own mortality. Too often we think of ourselves as invincible, but we are merely biding time here on earth. Being prepared for the inevitable end of our lives is very important, and author Pat Cochran addresses this subject in her book, "Last Rights: Taking Care With Your Final Journey." This book is designed to help with the process of broaching the subject of death, and making the necessary preparations so that the decisions concerning final arrangements are in place when the time comes, making the grieving process easier for your surviving family members. Following the advice found in "Last Rights" will also help insure that your wishes are honored in the way you want to be remembered upon your death.Cochran takes a gentle, non-threatening approach to the subject of dying. This book offers practical advice on end-of-life issues, such as estate and funeral planning, writing an obituary and eulogy, and how to write advance medical directives. She also liberally uses personal stories from others who have faced death with dignity. From these touching stories comes real-life lessons on how to take the necessary steps to depart from this life with dignity and grace.There are specific chapters on how to write a will, how to engage a healthcare spokesman, how to plan your own memorial service, and even how to preplan your own funeral. The final sixty-nine pages contain examples of some of the important forms that might be used when the end of life is near. Sprinkled among the stories and advice are meaningful quotes and poems that might be used in eulogies or remembrances. I was particularly touched by the sage wisdom found in the "Ten Truths About Grief." This is not a gruesome or sad book in any way, but an uplifting and practical guide to something we all must face one day. There is a certain comfort that can be gained from knowing just how you will be remembered when you've passed. With "Last Rights," Pat Cochran has just made the journey a little easier.Sharon Galligar Chance, Times Record News, Wichita Falls, Tx.

Excellent information for your last journey

My husband and I received this book from Pat Cochrane who had asked permission to use one of his poems called "Conections" in her book. He asked for a copy of her book in return for using the poem. It came at a most appropriate time: Phil has Parkinson's Disease and we have been discussing the end of life. Pat has clearly, matter-of- factly, intelligently set out the steps one needs to take to ensure that one's affairs are in order before your time is come - complete with all the necessary forms to fill out right in the book, including your epitaph and your obituary. An invaluable asset for all who wish to save their family unnecessary anguish. b

Not perfect but appropriate

Is there a perfect book about dying, moving on, living your eulogy, etc?? Of course not because for each of us the experience is uniquley painful, uniquely life altering, and uniquely ours!! While I do not buy into every word of every chapter of this book, it is apparent that the author does not expect me to. It is for everyone, it is all encompassing and non-threatening. The beauty of this piece is that it works for Christians like myself, but also Jews, Muslims, agnostics, atheists. It truly touches the heart of the HUMAN experience of death without prejudice to certain religions and beliefs. For the reader who thought death and "warm fuzzzies" do not mix, she is right!! This book however does not attempt this combination. Death and loss are best faced relaxed, prepared, and educated. The author does all of these things. Agree with her or not, you WILL be better prepared for loss having read it. What better way to educate yourself and the ones you love!! Buy this book now!!

It's About Time...

For years after losing several of my closest loved ones, I have wondered if anyone would ever have the courage and moral servitude to approach this topic. With joy, relief, and I must admit a tear in my eye, I completed this work of generosity and love in one sitting. Although I agree life and death cannot be taught in a book, but rather only lived, this work serves its purpose. It is not meant to complete our journey through the end of life, but only to build a foundation. I for instance would not skydive without taking lessons, but would certainly not consider taking lessons the act of skydiving. Pat Cochran has set her readers up for success in dealing with loss and for that I commend her and most adamantly recommend reading her work!

Last Rights: Heartwarming and real

I heard this author on a recent radio program. This is such an important topic, dealt with compassion, reality, practicality and humor. I'm giving 5 copies of this away for Christmas presents.