I'll Be Whoever You Need: Breaking the People-Pleaser Pattern

By Karen Harding

You don't have to keep shrinking yourself to fit into someone else's idea of who you should be.
If you've spent your life saying "yes" when you meant "no," putting others' needs before your own, or feeling invisible in your own relationships-I'll Be Whoever You Need is the wake-up call and healing guide you've been waiting for.

This book explores the deep roots of people-pleasing, from early childhood conditioning to societal expectations that reward self-sacrifice over self-respect. It offers a compassionate and actionable roadmap to help you break free from codependent patterns and finally start showing up as your authentic self.

Inside, you'll uncover:

The psychology behind people-pleasing and chronic self-abandonment

How to recognize and challenge the need for external validation

Step-by-step tools to identify emotional triggers and rewrite limiting beliefs

Assertiveness techniques to help you speak your truth with clarity and confidence

Practical strategies for setting boundaries-without guilt

Exercises to rebuild self-worth and reconnect with your own needs, values, and identity

Real-world examples to help you navigate challenging relationships with grace and strength

This isn't about becoming selfish. It's about becoming whole.
Through self-reflection, emotional healing, and boundary-building, I'll Be Whoever You Need will help you step out of the shadow of others' expectations-and into a life that finally feels like your own.

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: B0F4MQL3Y8
• ISBN13: 9798319076519
• Release Date: April 2025
• Publisher: Independently Published
• Length: 144 Pages
• Weight: 0.44 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.3" x 6.0" x 9.0"