If you are dating. in a relationship, or someone who is beginning to have intimate relationships you need to read this. Over the course of 10 years the author collected his observations from more than 1200 domestic violence offenders and their intimate partners. In "IF I HAD KNOWN" he reveals the word patterns and behaviors of abusive men which indicate a propensity and disposition that leads to escalating abuse and potential violence in their intimate relationships. This unique book reveals the signs and signals you want to be aware of so you can recognize the early warning signs to detect potential patterns of abuse to avoid getting involved with an abusive partner before you invest your time, your energy, your resources, and your heart in a relationship with the potential for abuse, or to get out of an abusive relationship before it is too late. The text includes an Abuse Escalation Ladder chart illustrating the increasing levels of abusive behavior from silence and non-disclosure to lethal violence, and a thorough "Safe Escape" safe exit strategy which describes specific steps to take to prepare and protect yourself if you need to leave. This is a book that just may save your life or the life of someone you know who is in an abusive relationship. It is a book you will want to read and share.
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