How to Get the Women You Desire Into Bed

by Ross Jeffries

Self published by author Ross Jeffries. No ISBN. A Down and Dirty Guide to Dating and Seduction for the Man Who's Fed Up with Being Mr. Nice Guy. This description may be from another edition of this product.

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: 0963037900
• ISBN13: 9780963037909
• Release Date: January 1992
• Publisher: Jeffries Publishing
• Length: 70 Pages
• Weight: 0.60 lbs.

Customer Reviews

Some Hard-Hitting Dynamics for Getting Laid

First off, this book is NOT for everyone. A key benefit of this book, is it certainly does expose some of women's "undesirable" behavior for what it really is. Enlightenment is the first step to success. There is no doubt about it. It will take some real confidence and courage to SMOOTHLY pull off some of the "get the girl into bed" strategies in this book. But here's the good part: if you CAN pull them off smoothly, you WILL get laid, period. If you are a perceptive individual, you can glean far more from this book than what is there. If you have absolutely no earthly idea how women think or operate on their deeper levels, you may not get much from this book at this stage. But when you ARE ready...Initially, Jeffries goes through some general methods of meeting women and getting their attention and curiosity (a CRUCIAL necessity in ANY seduction). He states how imperative it is to weed out the garbage from the gems. Why waste your time on a woman who you will go nowhere with anyway? There are plenty more out there who WILL. Jeffries also explains some confidence building techniques. However, if you are a guy who is SERIOUSLY lacking in confidence, this book may not be the right one for you to start out with. Otherwise, you will find the confidence builders to be both unique and effective. The real meat of the book is in the "get the girl into bed" strategies outlined in the last several chapters of the book. It is also the place where the men will be separated from the boys, so to speak. These techniques are based on NLP and a certain "hypno-seduction", if you will. If you can get a woman into a quiet place alone, and apply these techniques with good congruency, you will get the girl into bed. The key to making these techniques work is congruency, and CONFIDENCE. And applied properly, a woman's kinesthetic and sexual senses will be so "overwhelmed" that I don't see how she could NOT sleep with you! And I can say this from firsthand experience. But to put it bluntly, you got to have the balls to do it smooth. I suspect most men probably won't or don't.Ross has certainly come a long way since the writing of this book as far as the seduction technology goes. But on the whole, this book can make an excellent primer to the world of very fast and effective Speed Seduction; something EVERY man should know.In short, the techniques in this book will work properly if you do, and that's a big "IF." If you're an intellectual turnip with balls the size of peas, DO NOT BUY THIS BOOK. It is for the SERIOUS seducer who is ready to DIVE INTO the serious world of getting laid fast and ONLY fast. Leave slow seduction to the chumps who insist on traditional dating, blowing money, who never get laid, and get blown off instead of *blown* by women!

This book has some good points

I read this book and overall I liked it. The chapters on self-confidence, and the chapters for getting a girls' attention and how to appeal to women are true, so I don't understand how some readers can be so harsh as to discount a book when much of what was written are true. (The section on JASL members had me rolling! :) The only chapters I was skeptical about, were the sections on hypnosis. However, in retrospect, mirroring techniques are well-documented proven facts. Whether it'll lead you straight to the bedroom is something I think has yet to be proven. In addition, I don't necessarily think that his chapter on Using Hypnosis to Get Your Date in the Sack would work, but peripherally, I've had phone sex (and cybersex) with women that eventually led to the bedroom... just not in the same night. All it did was open the crack in the doorway that eventually led to where I wanted it to go. If that's the point Ross was trying to make, then he's succeeded. I think that overall, the book presented a lot of truths, and is worth a glance. Women, afterall, like sex just as much as we men do! And if she denies this, she's lying! If you're looking for a magic *formula* to succeed with women, you won't find it in this book. However, understand the context of this book, and understand what attracts a women to a man, and apply the traits and seduction techniques mentioned in this book, then I think you're dating life / sex life will improve. Mine has

The best wake-up call a guy could have!

Ross Jeffries provides very useful insight in this short, but crucial text for guys. I think one of the reasons why nice guys always finish last with girls is because they allow themselves to be walked over, I know I did. After reading this book it just all made too much sense. The majority of girls, particularly in California LOVE to play games and mess with a guy's head - and they're very good at this. Yes I know - not ALL girls are like that, there are some good ones out there, but they're probably reclused into the confines of a living room with Star Trek videos or are already hooked up with a two-bit jerk who belongs in jail! This book not only woke me up and allowed me to see right through it all, but also provided a how-to on dealing with it. The results : no more anxiety, no more dangling to the manipulative whims of game-playing girls who think that they can continue to do what they do and expect to get away with it!. No more, now it's our turn. Girls are nice, they mean well BUT where they fail is simple : They want a nice, caring compassionate guy who empathizes with their universe of problems - however, when that guy DOES come along, he gets walked ALL over and gets left behind for the arrogant jerk, who the same women later complain about - yet can't leave! Sort your lives out, ladies please!

Fantastic

This book is fabulous for lots of reasons, but the main reason is that it helps men (particularly the dreaded nice guy) take control of and responsibility for his sex life. I have spent the past several years ending up in a virtual sexual, dates from hell wasteland. Now, is it because I am really bad-looking, uneducated, boorish, offensive or totally misogynistic? No. The reason is that I have been trying to be, and shape myself into, what I felt women wanted- all those qualities that women talk about gushingly in magazine articles- sensitive, kind, dependable, smart, funny, etc.... I grew up in my relationships with women thinking that brains (I have two advanced Masters and am working on a PhD), money (which I luckily make a lot of), and a whole host of other qualities would just make me the ideal man. I guess I figured that the female companionship thing would just come as a matter of course, that it would take care of itself. But, as someone said in another review, those qualities may be great. But, that's not what turn a woman on or makes a woman desire you. It's not what causes a woman to respond. This book, along with another one I bought called 'How to Suceed with Women' really kicked my butt. Which is okay. I needed it. It reoriented me into what I was doing wrong, and really showed me that the best way sometimes to get a woman to walk towards you is to be totally willing to walk away from her. Seems simple. But, this book opened my eyes. I am not sure I would try everything in this book, but I do think that it can help a 'nice guy,' or a guy that continually is told that he is just seen as a friend. There is very little about dating that is fair, even with the most egalitarian-minded women. As a matter of fact, I find someone women my age (late 20's) as more spoiled than ever. If you want to succeed and get what you want in your relationships, particularly with some of the women out there who will gladly let you do everything for them, you need an edge. This will given it to you, or at least sharpen it up. Ross gives women virtually no quarter, which is something I respect. And believe me, once you've tried it, women will respect you for not letting them pull their BS on you either- even if you do frustrate them at the same time. A great book written by a guy who understands how men think, and explains his tactics to you in a way that a guy will clearly understand. Buy it! PS- If you suffer from the nice guy syndrome, also look into buying 'Nice Guys Don't Get Laid.' If you have ever been told you were a nice guy, this book will also set you straight about how bad that can be sometimes.

Amazing... amazing... amazing... must get.

Although the title refers to picking up women, this book is much more valuable than for that. My initial purpose was to "pickup women," but I've found that the principles that lie underneath his methods can be applied to practically all aspects of life (developing rapport, making a better workplace, selling more items). The book discusses Neuro-linguistic programming which is used in many self-help and inner power type books and seminars, for example, Anthony Robbins. But in this tiny $20 booklet, you will probably learn more than if you were to shell out hundreds of dollars. There is no fluff in Ross Jeffries' book. It's all method and why it works. Skepticism should abound, just as it should in any other purchase, and perhaps it will still be around after using his methods the first time around. But rest assured, there will be results that first time around. It only gets better each time.