How to End Things Well With Your Ex: A Guide to Moving On Without Making It a War

By Noah C. Valencia

Breakups hurt. But they don't have to be a disaster.

This is not a book about getting your ex back. It's not about revenge, winning, or pretending you're fine when you're not. It's about something harder - and more useful: learning to end things well.

With brutal honesty, real humor, and zero sugarcoating, Noah C. Valencia - twice divorced, three kids from two relationships, now happily remarried - shares everything he's learned about surviving a breakup without losing your mind, your dignity, or your kids' trust in the process.

Inside you'll find practical tools for: Getting through the first brutal weeks without making decisions you'll regretManaging co-parenting with an ex you can barely look at right nowTalking to your kids about the separation at any ageNavigating new partners, blended families, and shared celebrationsUnderstanding why you keep ending up in the same relationship with different peopleRebuilding your social life, your confidence, and your sense of self

This is the book nobody gives you when the relationship ends - but everyone needs.

Grounded in psychology, illustrated with examples from Marriage Story, Fleabag, Ted Lasso, and Euphoria, and told with the kind of self-deprecating honesty that only comes from someone who has genuinely been through it.

"Separating well is also a form of loving. This book reminds you that starting over is possible - without hurting anyone along the way."

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: B0GZCBJTLR
• ISBN13: 9798259296411
• Release Date: April 2026
• Publisher: Independently Published
• Length: 124 Pages
• Weight: 0.39 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.3" x 6.0" x 9.0"