Getting married is almost every girl's dream. From a young age, women fantasize about their wedding day. However, not every woman gets married at their ideal age. It pains me to see women being heartbroken; investing in a relationship, only to get played. Or to see a woman who fails to attract the right kind of guy. I also did not get it right the first time. My plan was to get married at 23, but it did not happen the way I had imagined. I achieved all my academic plans as well as my plans to buy a car at 21. I was already financially stable, pictured the design of my wedding dress, had the perfect venue in mind. Still, what was missing to make that picture a reality was the right willing man. I dreaded going home because my family would constantly ask me when am I getting married. I remember when a family friend said that we see all the achievements; you have written books, you even have a car, but when are you getting married? Although I was not really worried that I was racing against time because most of my peers were not married, such statements really got to me. I felt like society values marriage more than it values a successful woman. Fortunately, before I turned 27, I got married, but it was a battle; marriage was not handed over to me on a silver platter. The purpose of this book is to teach you the strategies that I used to attract and secure my marriage. It also aims to help you know what to expect in marriage. What is your marriage blueprint? A blueprint is a plan or design that determines how you will do something or events unfold in your life. Each of us has a natural blueprint based on our DNA or even our environment. So even when it comes to relationships and marriage, your life will follow a particular pattern based on your set blueprint. That is why you find that certain people attract marriage so easily without putting in any effort, while others struggle. In many cases, you find that history has a way of repeating itself. If a parent gave birth in their teen years, the child might also do the same. Hence, it is essential to identify your marriage blueprint to alter it if it is working against you. For the purposes of this book, I will only stick to five types of marriage blueprints. Which one are you? 5 Types of marriage blueprint 1. Marriage magnet : You easily attract people who want to marry you; or 2. Dating-friendly : You easily attract people to date, but all relationships are short-lived; or 3. Relationship magnet : You can sustain a relationship but struggle to get your partner to commit legally to you; or 4. No go zone : You struggle to attract a partner into your life; or 5. Yes-but-never : Your partner commits to you, but something terrible happens before you get married. This book aims to help you overcome whatever stage you are at in terms of your relationship journey. I know it will work for you.
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