From popular LGBTQ advice columnist and writer John Paul Brammer comes a hilarious, heartwarming memoir-in-essays chronicling his journey growing up as a queer, mixed-race kid in America's heartland to becoming the "Chicano Carrie Bradshaw" of his generation. "I loved ?Hola Papi! " -- Shea Serrano * "An invigorating and vital read." -- R. Eric Thomas * "We are lucky to live in the era of JP Brammer." -- Alexander Chee * "JP Brammer is the best storyteller...