This book is for couples who have experienced infidelity and want a roadmap for how to process the pain, understand how this could have happened to them and work through the betrayal so that they can rebuild the connection and create a bond that will move them into post-traumatic growth.
Carol the Coach has worked with thousands of couples and has taught hundreds of professionals how to use ERCEM-The Early Recovery Empathy Model to work with Infidelity and Problematic Sexual Behavior. Helping Couples Heal is filled relational skills that shows the betrayer the impact of infidelity and teaches how communication and empathy are crucial to processing the anger, grief, mourning, and loss that is a by-product of the infidelity trauma.
ERCEM is the gold standard for helping partners to feel that hope is possible for a truly loving and caring relationship. It requires betrayers to help the partner heal by initiating the healing exercises that build trust again. This book shows you both how to work together to create a solid commitment to build a marriage that is filled with purpose and meaning