Gamogamy: Human Relational Identity

By Jack Wilding

What if how you love isn't a choice, but an orientation?

For decades, we've expanded our understanding of identity (gender, sexuality, neurodivergence) recognizing that who we are isn't dictated by behaviour, but by wiring. Yet one axis remains unexplored: relational orientation.

Gamogamy introduces a radical new lens on love, fidelity, and desire. It argues that just as some people are heterosexual or queer, some are instinctively monogamous, ambigamous, or multigamous... wired for one, flexible between, or drawn to many.

This book names what millions have felt but couldn't articulate: the quiet dissonance of trying to live inside structures that don't fit. It explores why some people cheat without malice, why others suffocate in open relationships, and why so many feel like failures for simply being who they are.

Through vivid examples, psychological insight, and cultural critique, Gamogamy reframes infidelity, polyamory, and romantic confusion not as moral flaws, but as signs of misrecognised identity.

This is not a guide to better relationships.
It's a map to finally understanding your own.

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: 1068247614
• ISBN13: 9781068247613
• Release Date: May 2025
• Publisher: Jack Wilding
• Length: 130 Pages
• Weight: 0.40 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.3" x 6.0" x 9.0"