First, Do No Harm: Breaking The Cycle Of Love And Destruction
On September 11, 2001, Jared Thompson took an oath as a combat medic: First, do no harm. He meant every word.
When his brother Michael died of an opioid overdose at eighteen, Jared stood in a doorway and watched paramedics work on a body that was already gone. Three years later, his uncle followed. The pattern was written into his family like a curse, and Jared believed his medical training would be enough to break it.
Twenty years later, he falls in love with Dustin-and the pattern loops back.
Jared does everything right: interventions, therapy, medication-assisted treatment, and years of fighting for recovery through every legitimate channel. But when the medical system fails-when insurance delays and pharmacy shortages leave Dustin in life-threatening withdrawal-Jared makes an impossible choice. He provides medication to bridge the gap until real help becomes accessible again.
Days later, Dustin dies from street fentanyl he obtained on his own.
And suddenly, Jared's oath becomes evidence of a crime. Text messages about managing medication are reframed as "dealing narcotics." Years of caregiving become proof of "intent to distribute." Love itself is treated as complicity. The same system that failed to provide adequate treatment now threatens to destroy him for trying to fill the gaps it created.
First, Do No Harm: Breaking the Cycles of Love and Destruction is a raw, unflinching memoir about what happens when trying to save someone you love makes you a criminal. Through vivid storytelling and devastating honesty, Jared reveals how America's opioid crisis doesn't just destroy lives-it punishes the families who refuse to let go.
From the parade ground at Fort Sam Houston where the towers fell, to the interrogation room where love became a crime, this book explores impossible choices, generational trauma, and the moment when every option becomes harm-and you still have to choose. But it is also about resilience, transformation, and what it means to finally break free from cycles that have claimed too many lives.
This memoir is for anyone who has loved someone with addiction and felt powerless to help. For families navigating the impossible space between enabling and abandoning. For readers seeking to understand why our systems criminalize compassion instead of providing care.
Unflinching in its honesty, devastating in its clarity, and ultimately hopeful in its vision for change, First, Do No Harm asks the question that haunts millions of families: What does it mean to do no harm when harm is everywhere?
Perfect for readers of Beautiful Boy, Educated, and The Body Keeps the Score.
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