There are a lot of people who are looking to be found, but they don't know how to find themselves. They want someone else to tell them who they are, or they want their friends or family to tell them what they should do with their lives. But the problem is that no one can tell you who you are-you have to figure it out yourself.
We start to think that if we can just be the perfect wife, girlfriend or daughter-in-law then everything will be perfect in life. But if you haven't found yourself yet then how can you be expected to find someone else?
That's why so many people aren't happy anymore because they've lost sight of who they are and what makes them unique. They're always trying to please everyone else instead of looking at their own needs and wants first because it's easier than feeling like an outsider within your own life