The Family: A Christian Perspective on the Contemporary Home

by Judith K. Balswick and Jack O. Balswick

Book Overview

Two respected senior professors in the marriage and family field cover every issue that affects family life, including marriage, parenting, sexuality, communication, social dynamics, and family life... This description may be from another edition of this product.

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: 0801049342
• ISBN13: 9780801049347
• Release Date: May 2014
• Publisher: Baker Academic
• Length: 416 Pages
• Weight: 1.50 lbs.
• Dimensions: 1.3" x 6.0" x 8.9"

Customer Reviews

Review on "The Family"

I found this book to be relevant, practical and very profound. It is an excellent view of the examination of the Christian family in today's culture. I would highly recommend it!

Food for Thought

Jack and Judith Balswick present a comprehensive theological and sociological framework for healthy marriage and family living. They interact with traditional and non-traditional models while proposing their own alternative view. Against their proposed theological framework a discussion of a wide array of marital and family issues is provided. The Balswicks contend that the best theological basis for understanding how families are to function is found in God's relationship as parent to Israel and groom to the church as bride. While allowing that there are many individual texts in scripture relating to family life they argue that those passages are often interpreted without regard for the cultural context within which they were written, or the wider context of biblical revelation, and often with a modern western traditional family overlay. Citing a number of authors who share similar views the Balswicks present a four-stage sequential but non-linear model of family relationships: covenant, grace, empowering, and intimacy. Covenant is characterized by unconditional love and commitment. Grace grows out of the security provided in covenant commitment. Empowering occurs in an atmosphere of grace. Intimacy flourishes against the backdrop of empowerment. All of this results in deeper and deeper levels of commitment and issues forth more grace, empowering, and intimacy. It is a dynamic process. With this model in place various family life concerns are filtered through this framework. Topics examined in this book are: Marital issues (mate selection, strengthening marriages, models of Christian marriage) Parenting issues (goals of parenting, child development, adolescence, midlife, later life) Sexuality (gender roles, authentic sexuality) Communication (expressing love, expressing anger,, achieving intimacy, resolving conflict) Social dynamics of family life (power and empowering, stress and strain, divorce and remarriage) Family life in modern society Healthy shaping of the family in today's culture There are numerous illustrative figures and tables that reinforce the Balswicks' presentation. They cover a wide range of topics including: types of commitment, types of love relationships, styles of parenting, styles of conflict management, various developmental theories, and rules for fair fighting among many other concerns. The Balswicks have provided the reader with a valuable distillation of their considerable theological, sociological, and family systems knowledge. While I have not found myself in total agreement with them on all points I have found their arguments to be well-reasoned and challenging. I will recommend this book to any instructor who is teaching a course on family life or to any student who is struggling to develop an overarching theological framework for family. Their discussion of gender roles and power is especially relevant in a modern society and church.

An Excellent and Theologically Sound Read

I was delightfully surprised at the complex view of family that this book takes. If the reader is holding a rigid American -conservative "Christian" view of family, then this book will be utter torture. It challenges how Christians of today look back a view generations and idolize the "family" of that time as the ideal biblical family. However, with Jack Balswick's keen sociological perspective, he is able to create in the reader an awareness that each believing generation struggles with the issue of what if means to be a biblical, Christ-honoring family. The Balswicks finish the book with a hard look, sociologically and theologically, at the current state of the family in our culture. They clarify exacltly what is happening to families inside and outside of the church, and consider some of the strengths and weaknesses of the Church's response to these current cultural and familial trends. If you're looking for a book that is going to exegete texts to prove a formula for the biblical family, well, pass this one up. However, if you're looking for a work that considers the greater themes of Scripture, the overriding character of God as Father, and how you can navigate the insanity of our current cultural state without moving to the vacant spaces of Idaho, then delve into this one and expect to be challenged, encouraged, and equipped.

Great resource book for Christians and churches!

The Balswick provide an excellent basis for understanding the family from a Christain context. They deal with theological and psychological issues in a language that is easy to understand and informative to people with various levels of training. They deal with a broad range of topics in a sensative, yet intelligent manner. This book is a must for every church library!

Fine Theological Model for Family Relationships

The biblical model for family relationships proposed by the authors provides an easy to understand framework to explore family problems of today. The basic concepts of covenant love, forgiving grace, empowering service and intimate knowledge, which comprise this model, constitute a major advance in the formulation of a theology of family relationships.