(dys)Mothered: Healing Through the Thorns
By Alexas Bourgeois
What happens when the one who gave you life also becomes the source of your deepest ache?
In this raw, soul-stirring memoir, Alexas Bourgeois cracks open the silence surrounding the mother wound-the grief that comes not from loss by death, but from emotional absence. With unflinching honesty and poetic grace, (dys)Mothered is both a reckoning and a reclamation. It traces Alexas' journey from abandonment to awakening, from perfectionism and people-pleasing to self-acceptance and spiritual rebirth.
Through personal storytelling, reflective prompts, and a heart-centered exploration of identity, legacy, and lineage, this book invites readers to:
Confront the impact of being emotionally unmothered
Reclaim the parts of themselves buried beneath survival
Build the inner mother they always longed for
Break generational cycles with grace, boundaries, and courage
And bloom-even when raised among thorns
(dys)Mothered is for every woman who has felt unseen by the woman who raised her, yet dares to become the nurturer, protector, and safe place she never had.
This is more than a book.
It is a mirror.
It is a balm.
It is your permission to heal.