You know which call it is. The one you've been putting off for a week,
a month, maybe longer. The doctor's office. The collections agency. The
family member. The friend you owe an honest conversation.
The call sits on your mental list. Days pass. The list gets heavier.
Dial Anyway is a practical guide to 55 of the most avoided
phone calls in adult life - the ones we don't make because of shame,
fear, uncertainty about what we're entitled to ask for, or the feeling
that we need to have the perfect words before we dial. We almost never
do. The calls almost always go better than we expected.
Each of the 55 guides addresses one specific call. Not a script to
memorize - a framework for the conversation, including exactly what to
say, how to handle the moments that go sideways, and what to do when
it's over. The guides are written in plain language, for real people,
in the middle of real situations.
Avoidance is not a character flaw. It is a predictable response to
shame, uncertainty, and the fear that the call will be harder than it
turns out to be. Most of the calls in this book are shorter than you're
expecting. Most of them go better than you're afraid they will.
Find the call you've been avoiding. Read the guide. Dial anyway.