counterintuitive: A no-nonsense guide to dating

By Sandra Pinagapamy

Counter Intuitive: How to Act Exactly the Contrary of What You Thought You Should to Get a Man

A No-Nonsense Guide to Dating with Clarity, Self-Respect, and a Little Bit of Edge

Most of us were taught that to get love, we need to give more.

Be patient. Be nice. Be available. Be understanding.

And yet-so many women end up exhausted, confused, and alone.

Counter Intuitive challenges everything you thought you had to do to be loved-and offers something better. A smarter, simpler way to date that puts your dignity, time, and emotional energy first.

This is not a book about playing games.

It's about stopping the ones you've been unknowingly part of.

Inside, you'll find:

How to attract genuine interest without over-functioning

Why boundaries create desire

The power of doing less (and meaning more)

How to be emotionally available without being emotionally exposed

Written with warmth, wit, and hard-earned wisdom, this guide is for women who are done performing-and ready to date with self-respect, clarity, and real confidence.

Because love shouldn't cost you your peace.

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: B0FP5S4SYJ
• ISBN13: 9798262780501
• Release Date: August 2025
• Publisher: Independently Published
• Length: 170 Pages
• Weight: 0.52 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.4" x 6.0" x 9.0"