Cold Feet & Hot Tempers: A Man's Survival Guide to Her Menopause

By Dave Payne and Amber Pennock

What happens when the woman you love suddenly turns into a human furnace... and the thermostat becomes a hostage?

Welcome to menopause - from the man's side of the bed.

Cold Feet & Hot Tempers is a laugh-out-loud, deeply relatable survival guide for men navigating one of the most confusing, emotional, and surprisingly intimate phases of marriage: menopause.

Written with humor, heart, and hard-earned wisdom, this book takes readers inside the daily realities men are rarely warned about:

Hot flashes that strike without mercy

Mood swings that defy logic

Thermostat wars with no winners

Sleepless nights, emotional fog, snack diplomacy, and the mysterious power of fans

But this isn't just a comedy.

Beneath the jokes is a powerful message about partnership, patience, and love that grows deeper when life gets uncomfortable. This book shows men how to:

Support without fixing

Listen without defending

Love without taking things personally

Stay present when things feel uncertain

Written by Dave Payne, a husband who lived through the chaos with humor and humility, alongside Amber Pennock, who brings the authentic lived experience of menopause, this book offers both validation and guidance - without medical jargon or lectures.

If you've ever wondered:

"Why is it freezing and boiling at the same time?"

"Did I say something wrong... again?"

"How do I help without making it worse?"

This book is for you.

Funny, honest, and unexpectedly moving, Cold Feet & Hot Tempers reminds couples that menopause isn't something you survive alone - it's something you grow through together.

Bring snacks. Keep a fan nearby. And laugh your way through the heat.

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: B0GBGM9T8X
• ISBN13: 9798279258239
• Release Date: December 2025
• Publisher: Independently Published
• Length: 100 Pages
• Weight: 0.32 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.2" x 6.0" x 9.0"