Bunnie Xo Memoir: Unfiltered and Stripped Down

By Bunnie Xo

Alisa "Bunnie XO" has lived a life few could imagine - a journey marked by survival, reinvention, and courage. From a chaotic childhood in Houston and Las Vegas, where instability, neglect, and trauma were constants, to a teenage world of rebellion, risky choices, and self-destructive coping, Alisa learned early how to survive in spaces that offered little safety or love. Yet through it all, she created a mask - the persona of "Bunnie XO" - that allowed her to navigate life on her own terms while hiding the pain underneath.

This memoir traces her path from vulnerability to empowerment, chronicling her years in the adult entertainment industry as a means of survival, the highs of independence and freedom, and the lows of exploitation, judgment, and shame. It explores how she built a larger-than-life identity - through stage names, reinvention, and performance - while learning the harsh realities of the world she lived in. It also delves into the deeply personal: the first meeting with Jason "Jelly Roll" DeFord, the slow process of building trust and love, becoming a devoted stepmother to Bailee, and discovering the transformative power of family and connection.

Through her podcast, The Dumb Blonde Podcast, and her public presence, Alisa embraced radical transparency, turning pain into empowerment and shame into a tool for advocacy. She learned to stop apologizing for her past, to reclaim her story, and to show that love and vulnerability are strengths, not weaknesses. Her journey demonstrates how survival can evolve into resilience, how mistakes can become lessons, and how authenticity can become power.

This memoir is both intimate and inspirational. It offers readers a full-circle reflection on identity, trauma, healing, and the courage to live unapologetically. Alisa's story is a testament to the human capacity for reinvention, the importance of rewriting one's narrative, and the power of embracing life - scars, triumphs, and all - with honesty and grace.

For anyone who has ever felt silenced, shamed, or unseen, her journey is a reminder that the past does not define you, your story is yours to reclaim, and authenticity is the ultimate liberation.

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: B0FRYMKC86
• ISBN13: 9798266115651
• Release Date: September 2025
• Publisher: Independently published
• Length: 90 Pages
• Weight: 0.26 lbs.
• Dimensions: 8.5" x 0.2" x 5.5"