Black Men Not Looking for Sex : (Why They Commit Forever)

By Alvis Davis and Davism Alvis O.

Book by Davis, Alvis, Davism Alvis O. This description may be from another edition of this product.

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: 0962765643
• ISBN13: 9780962765643
• Release Date: January 1995
• Publisher: Zevon Pubns
• Length: 216 Pages
• Weight: 0.62 lbs.
• Dimensions: 8.5" x 0.8" x 5.5"

Customer Reviews

Changed my life...literally

I read this book ten years ago when I was ignorant about the way men think. Having grown up as a black girl in a predominantly white neighborhood, I had low self-esteem particularly about my attractiveness to the opposite sex. I had few close male friends or even cousins. My father is and was always there for me, however he was somewhat "emotionally unavailable". I thought men didn't have feelings (I'd never been around men who expressed them). I thought the men who were attracted to me only wanted sex. Boy was I wrong. By reading this book I learned how men think about women. What traits they really want in a woman. What makes them want to commit. What really attracts them to a woman. I began dating more wisely. Ten years later, I am five-years married to a wonderful man whose #1 priority is being a good husband and father. This is due in no small part to this book. It made me look at men as complex human beings instead of emotionless, one-track minded droids. Thank you Mr. Davis!

You can get a Black man's heart and lifelong commitment!

This brother has an excellent understanding of the emotional and mental makeup of Black men. For all those sistahs that believe men only want them for one thing, Mr. Davis and the men interviewed for this book disagree. The Black man is looking for love, just like you are, but due to his male socialization, puts more emphasis on sexual prowess than his ability to be a good husband and stable family man. A Black man will test you with plays and maneuvers that would be the envy of Michael Jordan! And if you think that sex is the way to get commitment, or that you can get what you want from a man by playing games, then you have important things to learn. You can get a Black man's heart and lifelong commitment if you know what to do, and how to do it. This book, read with an open mind, will show you the way.