It's so much BIGGER than that... BIGGER is my first published book and it walks us through forgiveness which is BIGGER than anything we go through in life and it keeps our hearts open to being replenished with love. I have been on a 7-year journey seeking justice for my son Bakari who was brutally murdered in Greece on 7/7/17 and the entire time I have been waiting to forgive until after justice was served. But forgiveness is not conditional, we can't tell God when we plan to forgive. The call to action is to simply forgive. Forgive everyone, for everything. Yes, it's a very hard pill to swallow so if you have to crush the pill up to make it digestible do so, do whatever you must to answer the call. You cannot afford the luxury of unforgiveness, it will bankrupt you.
Our hearts cannot be filled with bitterness and love; there's not enough capacity for both. Love and forgiveness walk hand and hand together and you can't do one effectively without the other. We were created as part of a BIGGER picture which requires a BIGGER heart. Live on purpose for a purpose. Let your faith be BIGGER than your crisis. What you think will kill you may build you if you Think Bigger.