Beyond the Urge: Awareness, Sexual Impulse, and the End of Unnecessary Struggle

By Dennis Lain

Beyond the Urge is not about resisting desire, fixing yourself, or winning a battle against impulse.

It's about ending a struggle that never needed to exist.

Many people experience sexual urges as a problem something to suppress, control, justify, or feel ashamed of. This book takes a different approach. It shows how urges arise naturally, how awareness relates to impulse, and why unnecessary suffering forms when urges are misunderstood rather than seen clearly.

This is not a morality book.
It is not a behavior plan.
And it is not about denying sexuality.

Instead, Beyond the Urge offers a simple, honest exploration of:

● How sexual impulses arise in awareness
● Why fighting urges often strengthens them
● The difference between impulse, action, and identity
● How shame and suppression create inner conflict
● What happens when urges are met with clarity instead of resistance

Written in a calm, compassionate tone, this book invites readers to observe rather than battle their experience. As awareness deepens, urgency softens. Choice becomes clearer. And struggle naturally falls away.

If you've tried discipline, distraction, or self-judgment and found they only create more tension this book offers a quieter, more sustainable understanding.

Not by changing who you are.
But by seeing what's already happening more clearly.

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: B0GDT7R23N
• ISBN13: 9798242295964
• Release Date: January 2026
• Publisher: Independently Published
• Length: 66 Pages
• Weight: 0.22 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.1" x 6.0" x 9.0"