For the woman in a demanding career who is still delivering, still holding it together, and running on bone-deep empty.
You're not imagining it, you're not weak, and a week off won't fix it. Burnout is a nervous system condition, not a character flaw.
"Take a holiday." "Practise self-care." "Set better boundaries." You've heard it all, and none of it touched the problem, because none of it addresses what's happening underneath: a nervous system stuck in a state it was never built to stay in.
Beyond Burnout is a short, science-based training manual, built from my original burnout programme. It isn't therapy, counselling or life coaching. It's training for your body and mind, so you can work in a high-intensity environment and still come home with something left.
One admission up front: since I first taught this, I've changed the order. Nervous system first, then the mind. The book tells you exactly where to start if you're running on empty.
Inside, you'll discover:
What chronic stress does to the parts of your brain that handle decisions, memory and fear, and why it explains the forgetting and the numbness (Introduction)Why your ancient stress response can't tell a performance review from a predatorThe Locus of Control exercise that shows you how much energy you're spending on things you can't change (Chapter One)Remove, Reduce, Release: the three-step method for dealing with chaos you can't escape (Chapter One)Why changing jobs so often changes nothing (Chapter One)Two pathways for two kinds of burnout: one for when you're wired and snappy, one for when you've gone flat and numb. Pick the wrong one and you'll make it worse (Chapter Two)Why cold water doesn't need to be freezing for women, and why you should start mild (Chapter Two)The four-step Stress Slasher for the days you don't have time for anything else (Chapter Two)A letter to the belief that's been running you, and what to do with it afterwards (Chapter Three)The Canyon of Chaos: the stretch where most people quit, and the three stories you'll tell yourself while you're in it (Chapter Three)Which of three archetypes keeps you stuck: the Magpie, Captain Perfection or the Shameful Victim (Chapter Three)This book is not for you if you're looking for a bubble bath and a pep talk, or for someone to tell you you're a victim of your circumstances. It's for women who would rather be trained than soothed.
For informational and educational purposes only. Not medical advice. Some practices aren't suitable if you're pregnant or have a heart or other medical condition; check with a healthcare professional first.