Becoming Unconditional Love

By Rachnilda Hous Tjin-Kon-Fat

Becoming Unconditional Love is a deeply personal and courageous journey through loss, rejection, trauma, and healing. In this intimate memoir, Rachnilda invites you into her life story-shaped by early separation, the absence of parental safety, unspoken grief, and the long-term effects of insecurity and emotional wounds.

Through honest storytelling and spiritual reflection, she traces her path from childhood to adulthood filled with questions about identity, self-worth, and love. The loss of both parents, unresolved goodbyes, and repeated experiences of rejection become the turning points that force her to confront the broken places within her heart and soul.

Blending lived experience with faith-based insight, Becoming Unconditional Love explores what it truly means to heal, to set boundaries, to forgive, and to reconnect with oneself. The book reveals how rejection can shape behavior, relationships, and self-image-and how intentional inner work, therapy, faith, and self-awareness can transform pain into purpose.

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: B0GKZ4D55B
• ISBN13: 9798246305683
• Release Date: January 2026
• Publisher: Independently Published
• Length: 96 Pages
• Weight: 0.31 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.2" x 6.0" x 9.0"