AuDHD and Relationships: Communication, Boundaries, and Connection Without Burnout

By Dr Diana Moyer

Relationships were not designed with AuDHD brains in mind. The standard advice - communicate more openly, set firmer boundaries, be more present - assumes a nervous system that processes the world in ways most AuDHD people simply do not. The result is a gap between what relationships are supposed to look like and what they actually feel like for people living at the intersection of autism and ADHD.
AuDHD and Relationships by Dr Diana Moyer is the guide that closes that gap.
Written with honesty and without clinical distance, this book moves through every dimension of AuDHD relationships - the push and pull between craving connection and needing to retreat, the communication breakdowns that have nothing to do with how much someone cares, the boundaries that collapse before they are ever fully stated, the sensory realities of physical intimacy, and the long, unglamorous work of sustaining a relationship without losing the self in the process.
This is not a book about fixing AuDHD. It is a book about understanding it clearly enough to build something real - relationships that are honest, structurally sound, and spacious enough to hold the actual person inside them.
For anyone who has ever felt too complicated to be loved well, this book makes the case that the right relationship was never going to fit a generic template anyway.

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: B0H35Q5WR7
• ISBN13: 9798198877474
• Release Date: May 2026
• Publisher: Independently Published
• Length: 130 Pages
• Weight: 0.40 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.3" x 6.0" x 9.0"