Friendships shouldn't feel this hard.
If you overthink texts, panic when plans change, or feel a constant fear of being forgotten, replaced, or left behind, you're not alone. This book is for you.
This book explores anxious attachment in friendships, why silence feels unbearable, why closeness feels urgent, and why losing a friend can feel like losing a part of yourself. You'll learn how anxious attachment develops, how it quietly shapes your thoughts, behaviors, and self-worth, and why the fear of abandonment can make friendships feel emotionally exhausting.
Written for people who feel "too much" in their friendships, this book will help you:
Understand your attachment style without shame or self-blameRecognize patterns like reassurance-seeking, overthinking, and fear of rejectionBuild emotional security that doesn't depend on constant validationCreate healthier, more balanced friendships rooted in trust, boundaries, and self-worthThis isn't about becoming distant, detached, or needing people less.
It's about becoming secure enough to stay connected without losing yourself.When you stop measuring your worth through friendships, they stop feeling fragile, and start feeling supportive, steady, and fulfilling.