THIS BOOK IS ALL ABOUT HOW TO ACTUALLY NAVIGATE DATING WHEN YOU HAVE AN ANXIOUS ATTACHMENT STYLE. LIKE WHAT DO YOU ACTUALLY FUCKING DO?
It's tough navigating dating and relationships when you have an anxious attachment style. It's impossible to relax when you're always worried about what the other person is thinking or doing. When you're so focused on waiting for the other person to give you the reassurance you seek, you can't enjoy the experience and be present for it. Not only is all this exhausting for you, but it's tiring for the other person - whether it's a partner or someone you're seeing.
When the person I was dating started to pull away, I tensed up, freaked out, and held on even tighter, which only pushed them away even more, and it hurt like hell. It hurt like my life depended on it at times. I shrank into a helpless little lost child, paralyzed by fear and loneliness. Dating became an addiction, a way for me to punish myself while desperately hoping that the punishment would end and I would be saved.
In this book "Anxious attachment style" I want to share with you how you could best navigate dating when you have an anxious attachment style, and you will also discover the mistakes that many anxious attachment people make when looking for love. And let's not forget there are tips in this book to help you break free from anxious attachment to secure.
If you follow the dating guidelines in this book for anxious attachment, you may start seeing a different picture.
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