Anti-Unnecessary Hassle: Notes From the Ghosting Queen

By L V Ivy

Anti-Unnecessary Hassle is a memoir told in sharp, intentional chapters - each one a moment, a pattern, or a quiet decision made somewhere between carrying too much and finally setting it down.

L.V. Ivy traces the inherited habits, family dynamics, and generational lessons that shaped her life: the ghosting, the guarded heart, the birthday experiment, the separate-houses marriage philosophy, and the refusal to tolerate unnecessary drama.

What begins as stories about relationships, family, love, and independence becomes something deeper - a record of what she chose to keep, what she chose to release, and the patterns she decided would end with her.

With humor, clarity, and a lifetime of lived experience, Ivy shows that peace is not an accident. It's a choice. And sometimes the most radical act of self-love is simply refusing to carry what was never yours.

The struggle may have been inherited. The repetition stops with me.

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: B0HQGR9M8D
• ISBN13: 9798182936118
• Release Date: October 2026
• Publisher: Lived It Press
• Length: 60 Pages
• Weight: 0.15 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.1" x 5.0" x 8.0"