After the Uniform: A Psychotherapist's Guide to Coming Home

By Dr. Erik Gray

What if your hardest mission begins the moment you come home?

They trained you how to deploy, how to lead, how to survive.
But no one trained you for the silence that follows.
No one prepared you for the disconnect, the restlessness, or the feeling that you left a part of yourself back there-and can't quite find your way forward here.

In After the Uniform, psychotherapist and veteran specialist Dr. Erik Gray draws from years of clinical work with service members across all branches to offer a compassionate, practical guide for the real work of reintegration. This is not a book of slogans or empty advice. It's a field manual for the internal terrain-where trauma lives, relationships strain, and identity unravels.

With clarity, grit, and deep respect for the warrior's journey, this guide offers: Tools for managing hypervigilance, anger, and emotional shutdownA framework for rebuilding trust in marriage, parenting, and friendshipLanguage for understanding moral injury, PTSD, and invisible woundsStrategies for reclaiming purpose, connection, and identity in civilian lifeJournal prompts, grounding practices, and resources for long-term healing

Whether you've just returned or it's been years since you wore the uniform, this book meets you where you are: between worlds, searching for a way to belong again-without losing who you became.

You already proved you could survive.
Now it's time to come home-to your family, to your future, and to yourself.

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: B0FBK8R7JK
• ISBN13: 9798285942306
• Release Date: May 2025
• Publisher: Independently Published
• Length: 82 Pages
• Weight: 0.47 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.2" x 8.5" x 11.0"