Are you ready? Are you ready for your world to transform in an instant? I wasn't. I was a selfish, middle-class suburbanite running a good pace along with the best of the rats before my husband suffered a massive stroke. I spent the next four years ranting, wailing and scratching to hold on to my old life. I was a superhero who was going to help him achieve a miraculous recovery that equaled his miraculous survival.On the night of the stroke I made...