Love will take you to places of no return. It will cause you to make decisions while not in a state of clarity. Pheobe saw her love change right before her eyes. She never thought of the " what if's". She just lived with no regret.
Those 'what if's" are essential when it comes to spending the rest of your life with someone or in a particular situation. Relationships are to be built on mutual respect regardless of differences. Even when no one understands you. Even when you are all alone,
God is with you!