Where the Boys Are

by William J. Mann

Book Overview

In this witty and provocative follow-up to Mann's acclaimed best-seller, The Men From the Boys, Jeff O'Brien - still in search of love and sex - navigates the circuit scene from Provincetown to San... This description may be from another edition of this product.

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: 0758203276
• ISBN13: 9780758203274
• Release Date: May 2004
• Publisher: Kensington Pub Corp
• Length: 442 Pages
• Weight: 1.10 lbs.
• Dimensions: 8.8" x 1.3" x 5.8"

Customer Reviews

Gay Literature At Its Best !

I just finished "Where The boys Are" by William Mann. Truly one of the most enjoyable reads of it's genre. I only wish I had known that it had a prequel, "Men From The Boys". However, since I so thoroughly enjoyed this book I have already purchased the prequel and Mr. Mann's newest novel "All American Boy". I am sure to become one of this author's most avid fans. In "Where The Boys Are" I enjoyed the discussion as to how, we as a community create our own families. I have often felt that our gay families are so much more important to us than our biological families, and often times during the holidays I find it difficult to have to separate myself from my gay friends when they are truly the ones with whom I share my most intimate times. It is a story that "hit home" in so many ways. From the family issue to the circuit parties. I highly recommend this book as an avid reader of gay fiction. In Pride, Guy De Rosa Los Angeles, California

Captivated

I found it difficult to put this book down once I began reading it. I was so captivated by the characters and felt like I knew each one of them personally by the way the author wrote about them. It was almost like I was sitting in the middle of the story and it was unfolding around me like a movie. I could identify with each of the characters in different ways as well. I thogtht that this book was well thought out, written and presented to me, the reader. I read alot of books by many authors and this is the first time that I have been so impressed that I wrote my thoughts out for others to see.

This Really Hit Home

It was if Mann had some sort of portal that peers into my life, my hopes and my wishes. Although the details may be different, we have all experienced what these characters have to some degree. It was reassuring to know that these feelings about gay life, relationships and friendships are not unique.What really made the book interesting was the fact that it was written in first person from the points of view of three characters: Jeff, Henry and Lloyd. It's obvious that these are much more than fictional characters, but characters based on people that the author has actually known.It's interesting how the three points of view fill in the missing gaps in each character's narrative, or give a different spins on a single event, much like the characters in a Maeve Binchy novel.With Where the Boys Are and its prequel, The Men from the Boys, our generation may have actually found its literary voice in William J. Mann.

You Gotta Have Friends

While it helps to have read Mr. Mann's earlier novel, "The Men From the Boys," because the main characters carry over, this book stands on its own. Since the narrative progresses in chapters which are told in the first-person by several of the characters -- and this device really works well in telling the story -- this is one of those books you have a hard time putting down. There is something compelling about each of the half dozen main characters that propels you forward to uncover the next revelation. Mr. Mann uses his keen insights into the gay culture to address important issues like how gay men grow and mature, and he incisively describes the difficulties in maintaining the kinds of communication necessary to nurture healthy relationships between partners and among friends. Sounds kinda heavy, and it is, but the several story lines going on provide a lot of juicy entertainment as well.When I finished "The Men From the Boys," I wanted the story to go on so I could see if these guys could get their acts together. I got my wish with "Where the Boys Are," but I'm hoping there's a third act in the wings. The issues Mr. Mann raises warrant more of the kind of continuing dialogue on this that he's so great at delivering.

Sweet and Real

Mann has developed his voice and his writing style since "The Men from the Boys." Never afraid to try something new, "Where the Boys Are" is a continuation of the lives of Jeff and Lloyd, set a few years after Javitz's death. Jeff's new best friend, Henry, becomes the third narrator and a year in their life is told from all three viewpoints. Each man has his own distinct voice and through the entire book, I often forgot Mann was penning each section. Though gay characters can be labeled stereotypical, I believe each of us can see parts of ourselves in the main and supporting characters. Jeff, lost and alone (even though he's surrounded by others), makes me remember what it's like to feel lonely. Lloyd, embarking on a new adventure in P-town, reminds me of the joys and the rush experienced when starting something new. Henry, finally able to see himself in a better light, allows me to wonder if I could do the same. Though this book speaks to gay men, the issues transcend sexuality. With every high and low I felt more connected to Jeff: I learned lessons while he learned them, understood why he was being selfish when he was. No, the characters in this book are not perfect...but that's the point. This book is real life, put down on paper. Friends taking friends for granted, trying to learn how to sacrifice for others, mixing trust and boundary issues: these are things I see affecting us all.Mann's deep love of Provincetown is apparent though the setting does smoothly transition between P-town, circuit parties around the nation, and Boston. Forewarned, this is not a circuit party book. Instead Mann uses his settings as backgrounds, focusing on the events that occur at each, not the actual location. Characters relate to each setting differently and new facets of their personality are revealed as their own thoughts change. This just made me fall in love with them even easier. My highest praise for a book is whether or not I'll read it again...WTBA has already gone through its second showing this summer!