The Gifts of Caregiving: Stories of Hardship, Hope, and Healing [With CD]

by Connie Goldman

Caregivers share their stories of caring for a disabled or aging loved one. Includes interviews with Dana Reeve (wife of actor Christopher Reeve), former First Lady Rosalynn Carter, Pulitzer... This description may be from another edition of this product.

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: 1577491173
• ISBN13: 9781577491170
• Release Date: August 2002
• Publisher: Fairview Press
• Length: 208 Pages
• Weight: 0.85 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.6" x 6.0" x 9.0"

Customer Reviews

The Gift of Caregiving

This is the kind of book that does not age. There are practical books out there which give you helpful hints about struggling through the caregiving process. This is not one of them. The stories in The Gifts of Caregiving are from interviews which grew out of a PBS show entitled "The Rewards of Caregiving." A CD of that program is included in the back of the book. Gifts is about quiet courage, love and hope. It highlights the alchemy of caregiving from which many emerge with compassion, insight, and wisdom. Some, perhaps many, emerge from months or years of caregiving exhausted and bitter. But that state is not a foregone conclusion. As Goldman says, "We learn about ourselves from hearing the stories of others." All of us are caregivers, will be caregivers, were caregivers, or are given care at some point in our lives. There are many teachings in the stories of ordinary people as well as extraordinary people. You will recognize many of the names--Rosalynn Carter, the late Dana Reeve, Studs Terkel, and Bill Thomas to name a few. Gems of wisdom: *Humor always helps *A caregiver must take time for herself *It is a special experience--a time of growth *You must give up expectations *We are all mortal (even teens) *One day at a time. Stay in the present *Appreciate the simple things *There is a partnership between those giving and those receiving--listen *Help her validate the life she has had *Physical touch is valuable *Find others to share both the good and the difficult *Ask for help when you need it *Acknowledge your anger, your fear, your impatience, your guilt *You will not make her well, but you can ease the way *Being with him is important. One does not always have to do. You have the list, but you do not have the stories that will dwell in your mind and your heart. You may not need this book now, but you will be inspired by it as you read these stories of quiet courage, love, and hope. by Judith Helburn for Story Circle Book Reviews reviewing books by, for, and about women

The Caring Interviewer

Connie Goldman could be the nation's therapist on caregiving issues. No matter how much one person loves another, the beloved can reach a state of need that challenges the most indomitable human spirit. Connie, a former NPR reporter writes from years of experience and a natural talent for interviewing people. She has brought these skills to bear in this remarkable book, which includes moving interviews with Christopher Reeve's wife, Dana and former First Lady Roslyn Carter. Connie's genuine empathy for the characters in her book of stories about caregiving comes through in a soothing manner. Given the millions of people who are involved in care giving on a daily, even hourly basis, this book should be a continuing best seller for it surely offers the beleaguered caregiver a foundation for easing some of the burdens that have unwelcomingly come into the lives of caregiver and care recipient alike. A great gift to give a friend who has become a stressed out caregiver.