Is He the One?: 101 Questions That Will Lead You to the Truth, Whatever That Is

by Susan Swimmer

So, you think you've found him. The One. But before you decide for sure, you must ask certain questions of yourself-101, to be exact. But this is not a weighty tome outlining a hundred conversations... This description may be from another edition of this product.

• Format: Hardcover
• Language: English
• ISBN: 0740741942
• ISBN13: 9780740741944
• Release Date: June 2004
• Publisher: Andrews McMeel Publishing
• Length: 132 Pages
• Weight: 0.50 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.7" x 5.8" x 5.6"

Customer Reviews

Your Romance Coach Recommends... "Are You the One?"

I'm a Romance Coach, so every time I go to a bookstore, I cruise the "Relationships" section to see what's new and interesting. I look for something "meaty" usually, thick, weighty, and serious, hopefully saying something new that I can add to my toolbox. On my last trip, I impulsively added an unusual choice -- the small, thin, and light-weight looking "Is He the One?" by Susan Swimmer. 6 by 6 inches, only 120 pages, and covered in pastels with a swoony looking cartoon woman asking the question ("Is He the One?" in a balloon over her head), it just didn't grab me, and I read all the books I bought first before even opening it. Well, was I surprised. Yes, it's simple, and yes, it's a light- weight and easy read. But Susan Swimmer has come up with some heavy-weight questions to ask yourself about a prospective mate. "How will I know if he's the one?" is a question I get asked regularly, and Swimmer gives us some concrete mini-tests as a way of finding out. Here are some of my favorites (and ones my Sweetheart would have passed with flying colors): When he has a piece of news, does he call you first? Will he share his desert at a restaurant? Do you know how much money he has? And the last one, a real cruncher: Would you marry him even if there were no reception, not party, no nothing? Which is of course about you and not him. So if you wonder how you will KNOW, this might be a good book for you to add to your romance library. Kathryn Lord, Your Romance Coach www.Find-a-Sweetheart.com

great for thinking about what is important

i'm 30 and this book is really good...me and my girlfriends discussed the questions and they are dead on...not pie in the sky stuff but real things to help you think about whether you've got a keep or one you need to throw back. the stats, myths, and other factoids make this a nice book and worth the money. give it as a gift to a friend who's trying to figure it all out!!

Buy it for yourself and then buy another for a friend.

Whether you're in your early twenties and trying to figure this out for the first time, or you're looking back on a marriage of more than 20 years and trying to figure out what works and what doesn't and why, this insightful little book can h elp you get through to the heart of the matter. If he's the one, Susan Swimmer helps to confirm it. If he's not, she helps you see that for real.