"This wonderful book is a compass, a blueprint, a mirror, and a friend. Kohli gives language to what many of us feel but can't yet articulate."--Erika L. S nchez, New York Times bestselling author of I am Not Your Perfect Mexican Daughter "Loving, culturally informed, and holistic... Kohli] compassionately shares her own story, and guides readers through the nuances and pain of assimilation, individuation, and mental health...