The Wisdom of Tenderness: What Happens When God's Fierce Mercy Transforms Our Lives

by Brennan Manning

Book Overview

A Stirring Invitation to Accept God's Unfathomable Tenderness This description may be from another edition of this product.

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: 0060724463
• Release Date: June 2004
• Publisher: HarperOne
• Length: 192 Pages
• Weight: 2.75 lbs.
• Dimensions: 8.0" x 0.4" x 5.3"

Customer Reviews

Forever Changed

This book forever changed my life. I had reached a point where I figured I had passed the point of no return as far as whether God could love me or not. Mistake after mistake...being judged, made to feel inferior by so called "Christians"...you name it. This book will reveal a God who created us for Him to love...and there is no longer any doubt in my mind that I am loved...and that I have a responsibility now to pass that love on to others. I trust Him completely...know He would never leave nor forsake me...and hope plain and simple that others will see Him in me. Brennan Manning revealed a God I could not see through my tears and frustration. And I'll be forever changed...and forever grateful.

Believing self-acceptance and God's grace

Brennan Manning at his best: tenderly revealing the loving parental role that God is. The freedom Manning suggest from setting one's sail into parental grace, mercy, and love from God dispells the often lack of these qualities shaped by an increasingly dysfunctional family. Even the hard liner, "don't confuse me with the facts, my mind's made up" can see the radical transformation of one's life. Manning cuts across denominational, and non-denominational, dogma that is summed up in his restated theme from Luke 3:21-22, "You are my Son, the Beloved; my favor rests on you", and that we are adopted Sons into the family of God. I like Manning's one-liners through out his writing; among the best: "infinite tenderness limits rational finite thinking". Be prepared to live in trust, transparency, and compassion once you've bathed in this spiritual message.

Passionately & Courageously Written

Passionately written, the words are aflame across the page.His most searing and thought-provoking work to date. Succinct statements that hits straight to the jugular and forces a reaction from the heart.Yet, written and expressed with tenderness, compassion, not mawkishness, not soft love. An unusual call upward to God.An unusual revelation of what our God really is like.A book to be read, pondered, meditated upon, reflected, and absorbed deeply.It is a book for those who have been overfed with "Hollywood" Christianism and are now bloated with its false claims and retarded images of God and Jesus Christ.It is a book that will warm your heart and draw you back to the flame of which you once were touched by, that of God's fiery and awesome love for you.It is a book that will transform hearts that are ready and open for its message. Brennan Manning fearlessly drives the stake into heartless religion, exposing its fraud and emptiness behind all its glitzy claims and glittering candy-trash. This is a book written with courage.A timely message for our generation.It is not a "how-to" book emphasizing steps you have to take to experience change, but a book, that by exposing one's soul to its message without reserve, will cause a transformation.It will shake your beliefs about a God you thought you knew.It will rebuild a foundation of what God's love is like for you.It will restoke, rekindle, and rebirth a fiery love for Jesus Christ.It is not a message of Christianism and all its laws.It is finally a message of Jesus Christ, Him and Him alone.A must read...for all, especially Christians.

living as the people of Abba

Brennan Manning writes: "Instead of a light volley of divine love followed by the heavy artillery of rule-keeping, Jesus' love for the unlovely must pierce the heart of every Christian." In the "The Wisdom of Tenderness" Brennan Manning once again discusses the unfathomable love of God. By discussing the tender, pursuing love of Jesus, as well as the fierce mercy of our Abba, Manning seeks to point the way to how we should live as God's people in the twenty-first century.Manning begins by giving the lie to the all too common, overly optimistic self-evaluation modern Christians have been giving themselves. In an era where many live by legalism instead of grace and love, it has become too easy to skew the holy "stat sheet" by moving the goal posts into a more favorable position.Manning's main argument is that the Church at large has become so self-involved and inward, that we squabble while the world around us spiritually starves to death:"When the primacy of love is subordinated to doctrinal correctness and orthodox exegesis, cool cordiality and polite indifference masquerade as love among theologians, biblical scholars, and faculties across the land. When absolute control and rigid obedience pose as love within the family and the local faith-community, we produce trained cowards rather than Christian persons." What Manning suggests as solution to the horrid state of things is a return to Christians living as a people of tenderness. The example and presence of Jesus and his loving Abba are to be a model and motivation for believers:"Because of the mysterious substitution of Christ for the Christian, each encounter with a brother or sister is a real encounter with the risen Lord, an opportunity to respond creatively to the gospel and mature in the wisdom of tenderness." As usual, Manning's writing is top notch. He is a very talented author. More importantly, Brennan has fearlessly laid bare his soul in parts of this book. Others will no doubt find great healing and motivation in this book as a result. I know I did.I give "The Wisdom of Tenderness" my highest recommendation.

A Book Like A Long and Warm Hug

Brennan Manning's newest book, The Wisdom of Tenderness, is every bit the equal of The Ragamuffin Gospel. Manning gently and compassionately takes those of us whose heads are bowed in shame, puts his hands on our chin, and turns our gaze upward to the Abba (Hebrew word roughly equivalent to "Daddy") who loves us with tenderness that goes far beyond the tenderness of the best human fathers. If, like me, your human father was anything but tender towards you, please don't let that dissuade you from accepting the image. Just imagine the best Daddy of your dreams, the one whose arms you could get lost in, the one who would hold you for hours while you cried, the one who understands you fully and loves you anyway......Guess what? You have that Daddy. His name is Abba, and He doesn't just love you -- He LIKES you, regardless of what you've done or failed to do, regardless of your frailties, errors, and mistakes. You have that Daddy's love forevermore. Read this book and allow Brennan Manning to introduce you to him.