First of all, think. Be honest. Do you like the person you have become? When you look in the mirror do you like the person you see looking back at you? Are you angry, bitter, resentful, paranoid, ashamed, depressed, unreasonable, and hard to get alone with? Have you become a spiritual hoarder or packrat and have packed yourself into a corner with no way out? Are you struggling to move forward under the weight of your baggage of the past? Have you...