Helicopters, Drill Sergeants & Consultants: Parenting Styles and the Messages They Send

by Jim Fay

Book Overview

I have two addictions- kids and psychology. It's pretty easy to figure out why I grew addicted to kids, but with psychology it's less obvious. I became addicted to psychology because I grew up... This description may be from another edition of this product.

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: 0944634036
• ISBN13: 9780944634035
• Release Date: January 1995
• Publisher: Love & Logic Pr
• Length: 112 Pages
• Weight: 0.25 lbs.
• Dimensions: 5.3" x 0.5" x 6.0"

Customer Reviews

A must have for EVERY parent

This is a mini preview of a parenting method that is amazing. Love and Logic WORKS!! It does not matter the age of the child or behavior of the child...ADHD, to sweet angel. I have used this parenting method on my 10 month old and it works. My sister-in-law introduced me to Love & Logic before I was even a parent to start preparing. I read this book over and over again, along with the many other resources Love & Logic provides. Look up the other books and get them, it will be worth every penny...it will be priceless knowledge!! Update at age 3: This has been an amazing parenting method. My now 3 year old son is very well behaved and listens...granted he is not perfect and we go toe to toe but he backs down knowing that there will be consequences for his actions. Age 2 was very difficult but being consistant he has now learned that there are consequences for his actions both good and bad. I started early but it is never too late.

Funny easy read to help raise responsible, safe kids without all the power struggles.

Not sure what the other reader was talking about. I am an agnostic so I am pretty aware of that kind of thing. I was also a teacher. Not only does Love and Logic work in the classroom but it does amazing things with my kids. I have 2 toddlers and I think the Love and Logic books and videos are an indespensible resource. It seems to me that the previous reviewer was just looking for a forum to rant about something totally unrelated to these books. He also wasn't reviewing this book - I guess some people will actually mislead people to try and get their voice heard. If click on "see my other reviews" under his name you will see that he has reviewed every book in the Love and Logic series with this rhetoric that is based on complete ignorance. Charles Fay and Foster Cline (founders of Love and Logic) are from Evergreen Colorado - not Colorado Springs and have nothing to do with the whole "family first" thing. There is no affiliation whatsoever. Again, not sure what the other reviewer was talking about - but it is a shame that he may turn people away from a resource that is the most effective tool I have come across to raise children who are responsible, able to make choices effectively, have great self-esteem, and to avoid all the arguments and power struggles that come with parenting.

An interesting take on discipline styles

This is not a "how to" book but it is a very interesting look at three different parenting styles and the messages they send. This is a great introduction to the whole "Love and Logic" approach to discipline which we have tried with our very challenging son. We have had good success with it and it lets my husband and I be more consistent in discipline and approach even when we aren't able to discuss it with each other first.

Great Ideas

This is a wonderful, and short version of the Love and Logic approach. This little book is great to reread when you need to refocus on things. I would highly recommend that anyone that is around children read this.

Easy to relate to.

I was able to read this short book in one sitting. It kept my attention and used examples that were straight from my life. It gave me suggestions that I will be able to apply to my situation. Some of the scenarios were comical, but isn't life? I would highly recommend this book to anyone with children of all ages.