Heaven on Earth: A Handbook for Parents of Young Children

by Sharifa Oppenheimer

Book Overview

"Our children are, in the words of Kahlil Gibran, the gift of Life's longing for Itself. They run toward Life, arms open, and Life loves Itself through their small bodies. Pressing themselves into the sand, sifting dirt, watching an inchworm measure a branch, reaching toward the black cat, who evades, then looks at them through inscrutable green eyes...it is their biological imperative to reach toward Life, and we, their caregivers, must structure...

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: 0880105666
• ISBN13: 9780880105668
• Release Date: August 2006
• Publisher: Steiner Books
• Length: 256 Pages
• Weight: 1.15 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.8" x 7.6" x 9.0"

Customer Reviews

Wish I had young kids again!

This book is a wonderful resource to own if you are a parent of young children, a nanny or preschool teacher, or a grandparent. I wish that I had had this book when my own children were small. Not only does it share developmental understanding about children, it gives actual activities with enough examples for the caregiver to implement. I was a preschool teacher and nanny for many years, and I am even familiar with many of the Waldorf ideas, but this book really makes the whole experience accessible! I learned so much! I love the notes in the margins to help find information quickly, or as a reminder once you have read the book. It is a book that I could see going back to over and over. One of the ideas that I loved was the one about helping children through problems. Instead of telling them what to do, or talking about it with them, tell them a story using their toy animals and such, letting the protagonist animal have their same issue. That way they can see their own issue dramatized and they can take it in so much easier and with less stress. No lecturing...just a story. How's that for a great idea? (I know the Native Americans often problem solve with stories, but I could never figure out how to do it "naturally." Now I know!) And that's just ONE of the ideas. The book also gives ideas for the day to day rhythms of family life, seasonal celebrations and birthdays. It reignited my respect for the magical essence of young children, and my passion to help them flourish! This book is a keeper.

My Favorite Gift

This book is hands down the best gift for anyone that works with young children. The photography is very nicely done, and Sharifa does such a nice job addressing all of the important aspects of day to day life with young children. I love the Waldorf approach, but sometimes find it to be a little too up in the clouds. This book isn't like that. She paints a beautiful picture and inspires you to create the best environment possible for your children or the children in your care. Before you buy anything else related to waldorf parenting, try this one first.

A must read for parents of small children

As a new mom (my son is now 1 year old), I was searching for information on how to raise a child in todays overly technological society. The first book about raising children that I read was "You Are Your Child's First Teacher," by Baldwin Dancy. I found this book to be very difficult to read, and I wanted more how to apply the information instead of so much theory. The next book was "Beyond the Rainbow Bridge, Nurturing our Children from Birth to Seven," by Patterson, Bradley & Riordan. This was a great intro to Waldorf style parenting. It was a quick, easy read with a lot of good information, but again it left me wanting to know more about how to implement the ideas of fesivals & rhythms. I finally purchased "Heaven on Earth" (recommended by a Waldorf kindergarten teacher at a parenting meeting I went to), and I finally found what I'm looking for. This book has the theory, talks about how children learn, is easy to read, and has all the how to information I was looking for. She gives the elements of festivals, then goes step by step through a few sample festivals, including a fall apple festival and an Easter festival (which I plan to do this year). She talks about toys, gives sample stories to tell children at different ages, talks about discipline, rhythms, how to set up an indoor play space and how to set up an outdoor play space, how to incorporate children into your daily chores and much more. It would be very difficult to incorporate everything she talks about in this book, but it's easy to pick and choose a few things you want to improve or change. I knew I wanted to do some annual festivals, but had no idea where to start. I love her ideas for children's birthdays, Christmas and Easter. Perhaps the most important and useful feature of this book is the appendix. Here you can find websites and sources for children's natural toys & dolls, art & craft supplies, wool longjohns, cloth diapers, organic skin care and much more. She also includes a pattern to make a simple doll. I would highly recommend this to any parent of children under the age of 7.

Wonderful resource for parents!

I absolutely loved this book. I am the parent of a young child and feel so fortunate to now have this resource to consult throughout my daughter's childhood. Ms. Oppenheimer has provided parents an easy to use, well-written book with so many ideas for enriching the lives of young children. I loved the suggestions on nighttime rituals, family festivals and the science behind movement and play. I will be turning to this book many times for guidance and suggestions.