For Nights Like This One: Stories of Loving Women

by Becky Birtha

Book Overview

Raves from back cover: "A book for lesbian women who want stories that show how truly loving and gentle women can be, stories that prove our loves are well worth the fight" -- Body Politic This description may be from another edition of this product.

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: 0960362843
• ISBN13: 9780960362844
• Release Date: January 1983
• Publisher: Frog in the Well
• Length: 107 Pages
• Weight: 0.40 lbs.
• Dimensions: 8.8" x 0.5" x 5.8"

Customer Reviews

Beautiful Love Tales, Universal for Every Race

If you're not one for short story collections, FOR NIGHTS LIKE THIS ONE: STORIES OF LOVING WOMEN will change your mind. Becky Birtha's affectionate stories featuring lesbians from all walks of life were touching, intelligent and insightful. Birtha knows how to keep the cohesiveness of the tales, while making each one fresh and distinctive. The book is composed of 13 novellas all about lesbian love. Although the work was published in 1983, its simple themes still transcend to contemporary times. Sexual identity, same-sex parenting, race and monogamy were issues Birtha addressed with candor and could be heard today in any lesbian relationship. Nothing she wrote seems outdated. In the first story, two tripped out women get a rude awakening by a dude who detests their love in "It Was Over Then." Lurie and Sabra discuss raising children in "Babies," while Edna is intrigued by "Marissa," the new radical black teacher at her workplace. "Next Saturday" finds a Julliard teacher pining away for her student, Kacey, who reminds her of her own coming out experience. "A Sense of Loss" could be the most relatable story to black lesbians because its theme of hidden identity. The narrator, Liz, returns home to attend her grandmother's funeral, where she feels out of place. No one knows she's a lesbian (except her sister), and she feels like a hypocrite for not being herself around her own family. Liz has a lover back home, a woman she could never bring home to mama. But there was one person who always knew her heart: Grandma. It's not until Liz is back home with her true family, her lover Mandy, that she can truly grieve her loss--her grandmother and her own isolation from her real family. Julia and Gina think clothes make the lesbian in "Leftovers," and Emily realizes nothing compares to being with the one you love in "A Monogamy Story." Brownwyn holds onto a loved one's ring for "Safekeeping." Ellen doesn't like her lover's ex-girfriend and her obtrusive presence in "A Four-Sided Figure," while in the title story, a woman daydreams about a perfect lover--until she finds the real thing. The last three tales deal with acceptance. Jessica let her pride keep her from loving "The Woman Who Loved Dancing"; black woman Francie has to accept whom she really is and the love of her white best friend; and Sojourner realizes no one knows her better than lover Sierra, not even herself. Birtha's connection with all these tales is one of true love and all the forms it takes between women. We have the capacity to love freely and compassionately and that resonates with these stories. Birtha's writing in For Nights Like This One was poetic yet simplistic in its traditional themes--every woman, black or white, could relate.

*The telling that made things become so special between them

This $5 wonder is worth every penny and so much more. Becky Birtha is an extraordinary storyteller! She has graced us with vignettes that bring to life the every day stories of our living -- taking risks, loss, differances, finding home & family, what we give up and what we gain. The title story *For Nights Like This One* takes us inside the heart of a woman who discovers that she not only wants to love but also *she wanted to be loved by a woman, by a woman who could be much more than her own imagination could create.* The discoveries we share along the way left me saying yes indeedy! My opening line *and it was the telling that made things become so special between them* from Safekeeping speaks of what is now special between Becky Birtha and Mikkata ... I will read everything this woman writes. Open it up - read on ... find that something special