Extended Massive Orgasm: How You Can Give and Receive Intense Sexual Pleasure

by Steve Bodansky and Vera Bodansky

Book Overview

Couples who know how to give each other extreme intimate pleasure enjoy plenty of other benefits, including reduced stress and increased closeness. In this hands-on guide to getting it right, behavioral scientists Steve and Vera Bodansky describe how to give and receive remarkable orgasms, taking the experience of sex to a new level of enjoyment. Focusing primarily on women but addressing the needs of men as well, they cover anatomy in detail, address...

• Format: Paperback
• Language: English
• ISBN: 0897932897
• ISBN13: 9780897932899
• Release Date: November 2000
• Publisher: Hunter House Publishers
• Length: 256 Pages
• Weight: 0.78 lbs.
• Dimensions: 0.6" x 6.0" x 9.0"

Customer Reviews

Deeply Problematic

While the authors make the occasional good point they write with an authoritarian tone and engage in deeply problematic language and ideas on gender so upsetting and ill informed that it makes it difficult to see through to the good ideas. rooted in patriarchy masquerading as feminism that was all too common of the 80's-90's "woke" crew. Badly needs to be updated to the modern times, and the authors educated on the damaging potential of there CIS-gender bias and aggressive heteronormativity based in 60's gender stereotypes.

Real "HOW-TO" Not a thin read for the toliet or airplane!

A Gentleman's take on EMO:Every book has negative reviews. But the ones in here for this book must come from people who definitely did NOT READ THE BOOK!If you are looking for a smut book, this is not it. If you are looking for some magical gimmick, there are none in life. The Bodansky's put out their first book on ESO, (now EMO), back in the early 80s. I thank god for it! Otherwise I would have never known all these years what a couple could earn if they are willing to learn. It is so sad that so few have any idea what Great Sex really means. This is not a book that is going to give you some quick gimmicks to quick orgasms; or some 'new position' that will light you on fire. (It's so funny to hear when some people equate the mystery of great sex to some mystery position). One caveat: If your partner isn't likely to try something like this, you'll simply need to upgrade to a newer and more versatile model. For the most part, the benefits of this book require the full participation of both parties, (not one). In summary: This book goes into the physiology & psychology of intimacy, (trust building exercises to how to control and enhance the partners level of arousal). This newer edition expands greatly on the first!If only this book was distributed like books of faith, most of our world's problems and pains would be gone.

Her pleasure - a desireable goal for both of you!

First a disclaimer: this book is about one thing and one thing only - manual genital stimulation, and primarily female at that. If that is not of interest to you don't buy it, you will be dissapointed. There are no new intercourse positions or secret oral sex methods contained in it. Not only that, but the techniques contained are actually quite simple and unadorned, almost obvious if so many of us hadn't received such misinformed socialization. BUT if you are interested in deeply pleasuring your (female) partner, if you are interested in the sexual concept of "doing", if you are open-minded to perhaps a new way of experiencing and expressing your sexuality and that of your partner, then , by all means, read this book. In it you will not only find a refreshingly simple approach to pleasuring your partner, but also a great deal of coherent thought (mostly) on why you might want to do that, and why, indeed, your partner might view that as a valid pursuit and herself a deserving recipient of such focused and sustained effort. We men I'm afraid often underestimate the significance of this latter concern for our female partners, partners who have been conditioned through a lifetime of disinformation and preventative avoidance to not recognize the joy they may bring to a relationship simply by embracing their own birthright pleasure, and encouraging and educating their male partners to actively help them attain it, as they actively relax into the sensations their own bodies are capable of providing them. As well, we men seldom recognize the deep satisfaction to be derived from feeling fully engaged and truly competent in the pleasuring of a partner, and more generally caring for and nurturing her, all decidedly unmodern (and unmanly?) ideas. This simple concept, so blindingly obvious, is the heart of "doing" - a silly term perhaps, but a worthwhile skill and endeavor for any couple seeking increased contentment. Pleasure is the gift and the glue that nature or the deity has provided us to cement our bond in shared moments of bliss. Not to suggest that sexual pleasure can solve all ills, but done well it certainly can't hurt now can it, to experience on a visceral level the wonderous sensations a generous and giving partner can offer, and too the deep sense of satisfaction a truly contented partner may evoke in the giver.The techniques in this book are sparsely illustrated by not the greatest of drawings. The authors have a subsequent book that promises better illustrations. I haven't seen it but if you tend to be flummoxed by complicated geomtries you may find that helpful. I really see this book as almost providing more of the philosophy of "doing" than a great deal of detailed methodology; though, the basics are certainly here. In many ways once the concept is embraced the techniques may flow from practice, as feedback-guided learning is a key element in this method (ie - ya gotta talk before, during, and after). One addition I wouldn

Wow, I thought I knew it all

I wondered if this would just be a rehash of stuff I already knew. I was wrong. It's simply fantastic. I've been studying the female anatomy since I was 15, starting with the Hite Report. I've read books on tantric sex, The Joy of Sex, I've read all the sites I could on better sex. I've even gotten those Better Sex videos. Nothing came close (sorry for the pun!) to this book for my wife and me. I took her to new heights in only the first few times we used the methods described (pay attention to 1:00, oh boy)...and she was used to hitting some pretty high places. She's also begun to understand the potential of my physical sensations and to pay more attention to *my* pleasure instead of the wham-bam stuff. Best of all, it increased our intimacy by a huge factor. And she loves me so much more for caring enough to buy this book for us. Okay, it's mostly a female-pleasing book, but there is a lot of great info in here for us guys. And for making the most of your relationship. Get it, be honest and open in the sack (and everywhere else) and see what happens. Again, wow.

The most informative book I have ever read around sex!

I am a sex and relationship teacher and this book is the clearest most fun book I have ever read on sex, orgasm and relationships. I reccomend it to all my students. My sex life has gotten better and better using the techniques in this book! The writting is clear and to the point and can be understood by any one. The 'How do you do' section is fantastic! Don't miss this one.

This book handles Sex.

This is a jewel of a book because it describes the mindset and communications that it takes to have extended massive orgasm in our lives, as well as detailed physical anatomy and positions to do it in. You are taken step by step through it all.It handles Sex! All ages, and backgrounds can benefit from this information. Also,the victimization of "time", doesn't have to be an obstacle in the way of experiencing extended orgasm. Even women who feel a loss of desire or appetite could be inspired and there is information about how you can rekindle these energies. This is a book long overdue to be understood in our culture and definitely contributes to making the world a better place to live in!