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Paperback Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself Book

ISBN: 0062554468

ISBN13: 9780062554468

Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself

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This description may be from another edition of this product. Is someone else's problem your problem? If, like so many others, you've lost sight of your own life in the drama of tending to someone else's, you may be codependent--and you may find yourself in this...

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Book Advertised Not The Same

“I thought I was choosing the newer version of this book because that is the cover picture provided, instead I received the old 80’s cover. Had it been honestly represented I would not have purchased.” This review was taken from another review because I made the same mistake and ended up with an old edition copy.


I thought I was choosing the newer version of this book because that is the cover picture provided, instead I received the old 80’s cover. Had it been honestly represented I would not have purchased the two copies that I did.


Really helped me several years ago, so I bought another recently.

I should have bought it from Amazon

I got a "good condition" copy and I've never seen a book in a worse condition. There was writing all over it, pages were folded and torn out, its completely useless since I can't read some of it, a waste of money.

This book is amazing!

This book is amazing!! I have been in a verbally and emotionally abusive marriage for 19 years. This book helped me see what traits I have that set me up for failure in relationships. I am so grateful for the help this book has given me!

codependent no more

the book i received looked nothing like the book advertised

Not helpful

This book was not helpful or have any information that I took anything away with. Disappointed.

My Upside-Down Life Found Balance and I'm Back On My Feet!

Instead of spending hours of your time, expressing how anxious and depressed I was, and for so many years, I'd share a few things that might tell my story of recovery in a more concise mode. I had everything but had nothing. I had been Senior Class President, Top 2% in the Country during College, successful in modeling and acting, selected as Volunteer of the Year for the State of Iowa and the list of "stuff" could go on an on. I was so empty inside myself that I didn't any longer know how I felt inside. I was losing any sense of who I was. I'd become someone that functioned to serve, protect, nurture, encourage, forgive and love someone that couldn't love back. I was with the same person, in a marriage, for almost 5 years, and woke up one morning and realized that the person next to me was a stranger who didn't know the real me. The person that my life revolved around, the person that I chose to take care of and "cover" for, just liked having me around so I could pick up the pieces and paint a picture of a relationship and a family that was like "Ozzie and Harriet" so that others would think that everything was just fine. I can't stand the word "fine" anymore. Nothing in my life was fine and it wasn't until I hit bottom and read "Codependent No More:How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself", that my life began to change. The book answered all of my questions and caused me to look deeply at myself and my situation and evalute how sick I was. Yes, I was the sick one in the relationship too. I thought that I was doing everything right or doing what was right for my relationship. But I didn't ever consider that my own personal cup was empty and the only person who could fill it with healthy things was me. I didn't know that I was controlling others as I only saw myself as a caring and loving person. What had happened is that I went overboard-WAY overboard to the point that I had stopped eating, started using pills to medicate my pain and refused to make changes in my life. I was scared. I didn't want to be alone in life. What I didn't realize is that I was already alone. I wanted to love and be loved. After reading this incredible book, I realized that I wasn't being loved. I was being used and abused and I needed to hit this emotional bottom before I would accept help. My therapist advised me to purchase "Codependent No More", by Melody Beattie AND to read it. I almost felt odd going into the self-help are of the book store. Little did I know that the healthiest place in any book store is the aisle that reads "Self Help"! I owe my life to this book and I thank all of the wonderful people who contributed to the stories in this book, that allowed me to move out of my relationship and to enter a long recovery period. I am still in the care of a therapist. Sometimes I act in a codependent fashion. The difference, however, is that I now see red flags that prevent me from getting too deep into relationships that I reach a po

Fully develope your owm life

This book is about living your own life instead of living your life for your significant other. It is a wonderful book. It changed my life. I would also highly recommend the book An Encounter With A Prophet which helped me become more reliant on God.
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