Between Mothers and Sons: Women Writers Talk about Having Sons and Raising Men

by Patricia Stevens

Book Overview

"The challenge for mothers of sons is to realize that because we do not share a sexual identity, that because we have not grown up in a male body, we cannot presume to understand everything there is... This description may be from another edition of this product.

• Format: Hardcover
• Language: English
• ISBN: 0684850710
• ISBN13: 9780684850719
• Release Date: May 1999
• Publisher: Scribner Book Company
• Length: 256 Pages
• Weight: 0.90 lbs.
• Dimensions: 1.1" x 5.9" x 8.8"

Customer Reviews

A wonderful anthology

I found this anthology wonderfully refreshing, and very validating. It gives affirmation to the intense emotional endeavor of raising a young man, and allows a communal feeling with other mothers on the same journey. The stories are poignantly shared, and are passionately detailed. I recommend this book to any Mother raising a son!

Inspired *me* to start writing again

Perhaps this collection resonated more deeply with me than other reviewers because I consider myself a feminist *and* a mother of two spirited sons. My eldest son is only five years old and his nemesis/favorite person in the known universe a mere three and a half, but this rich book struck a chord deep within me that has not been played enough as a busy mother. I couldn't get enough of these esays. I am still hungry for more, so I pick up my pen and write a little bit everyday now.

Something here for everyone

As with many short story / essay collections, it is hard to review the book overall as the individual contributions are uneven. In this case, almost all are moving and at least some will touch a heartstring (or raw nerve!) in every mother. Many play the feminist angle, which I felt may be somewhat misplaced in a mother-son relationship. A couple I'd already read in other collections (e.g. `Toddler'), including one of my personal favourites, Jonathan Bing by Priscilla Leigh MacKinley, about a mother who lost her sight during childbirth and has to adapt to becoming blind and the responsibility of responsibility of caring for a new baby at the same time ... the thought alone makes me shudder, but she writes about it beautifully and it was a joy to read again. All-in-all, I enjoyed this book and would recommend it.

Memorable reading, great range of experiences

Each in her own way, the writers in this collection make complex connections -- with their sons and with readers. There's a great range of experiences here for the reader who wants to concentrate on the mother-son relationship rather than on family relationships in general.I sometimes cried and more often laughed -- but I also thought about my female friends and their sons, and agreed with what I was reading -- then remembered my mother and sisters and their sons, and argued back -- considered my male friends, and understood more than I had before. The authors had some great stories to tell, and the quality of the writing fully repaid a second (and for some essays, a third) reading. The author's own very moving contribution was my favorite, but months after reading the book, there are many moments I remember.

Incredible

I bought Between Mothers and Sons for myself as a Mother's Day gift when my son was 3 months old. I was moved viscerally by the essays contained in this book. Although I do agree with the reviewer from Wisconsin that the collective voice of these essays is limited, I feel that the emotional tumult felt and expressed by these very talented women is universal.